The Inner Beauty

Most of the people who would understand the value of inner beauty, will definitely agree with me. Physical attributes of a person are not what defines them best, their personality does in a far more better way.

Whether it’s a person or an animal or for that matter any being in this world, if you can see the inner beauty, I am sure you will love it. I believe that’s the reason why pets are famous in our world & the love given my your pet to you, it’s unconditional. Does it even know what color you’re, what’s your weight or height & still it gives you the same affection.

Some people love doing social work , on the other hand some likes to explore the nature, it’s the true personality / the beauty of a being or a thing that enables us to act in a kind way. Some of us love their pets, some their parents & some of us the first gift that your love gave you. What always will matter is the content. I would like to end this with a very famous quote ” Never judge a book by it’s cover “.

We all are beautiful and unique in our own way, the only time you feel ugly when you start comparing with other or you start to believe other perception of beauty. I have my own definition of beauty and so does’s just a matter of exploring
It will always matter who you’re, what is your personality & what you do in the long run. Because one day beauty will fade, bones will become weak, muscles will have to retire but what will matter is the personality which will stay alive.
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Am I doing it right ?

While having a look at the USER MANUAL of a newly purchased phone, I happened to think about this topic.
Let’s have a look at it. How different would life would have been if it came with an user manual. A directory which contained things right from our birth till death, the problems, the troubleshooting etc. Can you imagine it?

Hell No! I can’t.
When we are a child, there are people around us to tell about things which are right and which are wrong. There are our parents to guide us on to a proper path so that their baby gets along life in an easy way as we all grow up.
As a teenager, there is a totally different picture. There are times when we happen to think that we’re grown enough to take our own decisions and sometimes we just cry about some wrong path we take. Well, it is totally justified. As a free being, we have the right to decide the path we will traverse. It’s totally fair to decide what kind of people we wanna hang out with & share our feelings with. Overall, It’s our take on what kind of life we want to have.
Am I doing it right ? Yes ! You are.

There has never been a definite way of living. Different people will have different lives, different friends and totally different outcomes, expectations & achievements in life. We have the right to choose things for us and do our best to achieve those. What if we fail, neighter we were never given an user mannual to troubleshoot various problems we come across on daily basis, nor we want one.

The various problems and challenges that we face in our lives is what that brings the best out of our character. It’s the possibility that tomorrow will be a totally different day, which makes each day count and helps to keep up the spirits of living. Every failure we come across, gives us a chance to explore the options and come out again with a total preparation. Each of them is a stepping stone to something we intend to achieve in our lives.

Of course, there will be times when we will need advice from our elders, friends and others around us in order to tackle different situations in life. They would help us find the right path to travel upon so as to reach our goals, the tactics to solve various problems in our lives. And we will always be very grateful to them for their guidance.

I would like to end just by saying that,
There will be times when we will fall, we will feel low & depressed, we will loose, but we will definitely strike back every time with a greater force, much more enthusiasm and will keep on trying to achieve what we have always wanted.

A Few Good Quotes !

Here is list of the best quotes that will definitely make your day. Have a look ;

“Eleven Hints for Life”

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

4. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose
it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other’s shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you’re the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

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Accepting People For What They Are !

The world wide web has made this huge world something even smaller than a village, but in reality if we see people have started to drift away from each other. Nowadays people don’t have qualities, they are classified by TYPES and we are the proud founders of that. We don’t interact with people who are not in our comfort zone ( well I  am still looking for someone to perfectly justify their comfort zone). So what has changed over the years ? People ? We ? Something else ? Let me try to throw some light on this :

Human brain , the smartest of all i guess is a very good player in a very weird way. It always tends you to do things that you’re not supposed to. The worst thing about our brains ( according to me ) is that it is a very lazy and sluggish chap. Being the smartest , It performs every function efficiently but when it comes on moving out of the comfort zone, it will try it’s best not to. And this is how, we people have a very good habit of seeing people with a view that we have accomplished not what they actually are.

The worst thing in life what we do is , we define certain parameters for a set of things or qualities that are to be found in a person or something else. Partially , I agree that this helps to have a certainty of what you come across in daily life. But thinking it in a way that, expecting something from a person who can’t deliver us the required material, makes him useless. Is it fair enough ? I beg to differ in this.

I totally agree that, we have the right to choose everything in our lives, but even after choosing them, we cant start accepting someone to do or become something he’s not. That will only crush the person and nothing else. So why not accept someone for what they are ! We should, that comes with many advantages. First of all, it will boost the confidence of the person to such a level, even one day you will be proud of that. Secondly, it would make life much more easier in every aspect.

Finally, I would like to say that in my life I have always accepted people for what they are not for what i think they should be. It has always given me a chance to know them in a better way and have always helped me to strengthen our relationship. The best thing is that, it makes us versatile by developing in such a way that one day you would realize that there’s nothing such as a comfort zone in your life, because everyone out there has something to show to you & to give to you.

PS : Give everyone in your life to open themselves up , to show what they are and what they mean. I assure it definitely will help. 🙂

Thanks for stopping by and reading this. Keep smiling and have a wonderful life my friend.  🙂

Decoding DESTINY !

Hi all,

Thinking about what we have achieved in life & looking at the past so as to get a glimpse at the future, here’s something that I came up with when I came across something called DESTINY or for that matter LUCK.

For those who don’t know what the word means ;
Destiny : “The events that will necessarily happen to a particular person or thing in the future.” (Courtesy : Google / The Oxford Dictionary  )

The above statement is what i got when i tried searching for the term and i think most of us are familiar about that.
So how destiny works, I mean is it that it’s because of some kinda luck or destiny I got a chance to see this awesome world being a human ( Wasn’t I lucky to be the one amongst the thousands of ***** cells i competed with during the fertilization ?) Indeed It was !

Talking about destiny, what struck my mind that whether I will achieve something that is not defined in the catalog of events in life ( what we call destiny ) ? I hear people saying that if it’s not in our destiny , you won’t be lucky enough to achieve it or if it’s in your destiny, you would definitely get lucky at the right time. what I think is that there’s nothing in this world which a person will not achieve in his/her life, if you have the guts to dream about it, you surely have enough to achieve it. We are the ones who define our destiny and in turn we get support from the forces of nature.

I don’t know how to justify if there’s something known as destiny or luck out there, what i know that one day or the other I will definitely achieve what I have ever dreamt of or will dream about. I know that my dedicated efforts & handwork will definitely help me achieve whatever I want to. I don’t know if I get lucky enough someday to have everything at my fingertips but I believe i will not give up on anything.

At the end, I would like to say that It’s always about destiny because today we are here to create our own life, our future, our achievements, our failures..from nothing to everything.
We are the ones who will forge our destiny or for that matter will make it dance to our tunes.
The choice will always be ours ! 🙂

Thanks for reading; You can share your views.

I Want To Be Special To Someone

I just happen to receive a mail from someone asking to write something about how I feel about the people who have a special place in my life.

Here something that comes out of my mind on this ;

This is just a glimpse of what it really means when we say that ” I want to be special to Someone ” ;
The feeling or just a thought of being special to someone gives a total smile on our faces and we feel something even i cannot describe here. What I can is that whenever we start expecting to be treated as special by somebody, either we get so excited that we hamper it our self or the other way round, we are disappointment.
So what’s wrong in expecting and wanting to be special to someone ? I say, its totally fine ! We always have the right to feel the way we have always wanted about a person, whether being special to your parents or your friends or for that matter the person you love the most. Just remember that it won’t work that long if it’s one sided, so when you expect something please be ready and give that person what it needs to be special, so that neither of you get disappointment.

I have many of them in my life with whom it sometimes feels like there’s hardly any bonding, but all the spark comes back whenever we talk or for that matter even meet. It’s not possible for everybody to give a special place to everyone in their life, but it does matter how much you have the equation of the relationship solved with that person. For friends (the good ones) it a month, a year or even two doesn’t matter, what matters is the attitude the person carries towards us.

That’s all i have on this, because it feels great when you’re surrounded by people who always care for you and will do whatever to keep that smile on your face intact. I am glad that I have many of them in my life & wish the same for you all.
Keep Smiling and have a good life !

PS : Do tell people how you feel about them if they can’t make out because just remember they are also human beings and they don’t have any sixth sense to read your feeling automatically. 🙂 🙂

9 Life Lessons From Candy Crush !!!!


Ever wondered whether a simple game on your cell phone can teach you the lessons of life?

If you haven’t, the first thing you need to do after you read this is download Candy Crush on your mobile or your iPad or your laptop. Let me introduce it to the few who are unfamiliar. It’s a game where you have to make combination of three or more candies of the same to crush them and earn points. You have a predetermined number of moves within which you must hit a specified target to reach the next level. Needless to say, as the level increases, so does the level of difficulty; and challenges grow trickier and more numerous.

I bet this simple game can teach us so many lessons in life. Initially it sounded quite weird but given a second thought, yes it does! It gives some of the best lessons in life, and sort of has given a new meaning to the phrase “Life is but a game” where ‘candy crush is the name of the game’ 😛 Here are few of the life lessons ;

1. Life is unpredictable, just like the game board of Candy Crush where you never know what the game has to offer to you. The only thing you can do is take it as it comes, and do your best to make the best of what you get. It motivates you to give your best with what you have in life, and move on to the next level.

2. Chocolate is bad! Yes, unfortunately, in the game too many chocolates ruin you. Which seems to be quite a metaphor as too many chocolates make you fat in real life as well. 🙂 😛

3. Unity is strength, just like the number of candies in the combination increases your chances of scoring, in real life if we stand together and support our friends….nothing is impossible.

4. Time and tide wait for none. The popular phrase is proven correct in the game, either have it in time or let it go !

5. Bounce back with a bang ! Oh yeah, life gives you many chances to learn from your mistakes, overcome and bounce back with full force.

6. Help your friends as much as you want them to help you. ‘Lives’ are all about give and take. (pun intended)

7. Life is both fun and frustrating, yet if you play along, it can be colorful and yummy! What better illustrates that than Candy Crush?

8. A great way to kill time is to develop hobbies and interests so that when your friends are a bit busy, you have another companion waiting for you.

9. Persistence is all it takes: It’s true that life is a race, and it requires patience and persistence. Keep on going because you never know you’re your hard work will pay off and all the preliminary failures will suddenly become ‘Level Completed’.

That’s the thing about life: It’s waiting to reveal the solutions to all the problems it has offered you, its waiting to teach you everything you ever wanna learn from it. The only question is that : are we willing to learn ?

And yes ! if you are willing to learn and your enthusiasm compliments your observation skills the why not, it has the ability to teach lessons of life using something as silly as a simple mobile game. And if you are not then, keep searching in vain. What matters in life is not what it has to offer but your attitude towards what comes your way !

So take a step back from the pace of life and observe the things around you. In your contemplation of them is hidden all you need to know.