While having a look at the USER MANUAL of a newly purchased phone, I happened to think about this topic.
Let’s have a look at it. How different would life would have been if it came with an user manual. A directory which contained things right from our birth till death, the problems, the troubleshooting etc. Can you imagine it?
Hell No! I can’t.
When we are a child, there are people around us to tell about things which are right and which are wrong. There are our parents to guide us on to a proper path so that their baby gets along life in an easy way as we all grow up.
As a teenager, there is a totally different picture. There are times when we happen to think that we’re grown enough to take our own decisions and sometimes we just cry about some wrong path we take. Well, it is totally justified. As a free being, we have the right to decide the path we will traverse. It’s totally fair to decide what kind of people we wanna hang out with & share our feelings with. Overall, It’s our take on what kind of life we want to have.
Am I doing it right ? Yes ! You are.
There has never been a definite way of living. Different people will have different lives, different friends and totally different outcomes, expectations & achievements in life. We have the right to choose things for us and do our best to achieve those. What if we fail, neighter we were never given an user mannual to troubleshoot various problems we come across on daily basis, nor we want one.
The various problems and challenges that we face in our lives is what that brings the best out of our character. It’s the possibility that tomorrow will be a totally different day, which makes each day count and helps to keep up the spirits of living. Every failure we come across, gives us a chance to explore the options and come out again with a total preparation. Each of them is a stepping stone to something we intend to achieve in our lives.
Of course, there will be times when we will need advice from our elders, friends and others around us in order to tackle different situations in life. They would help us find the right path to travel upon so as to reach our goals, the tactics to solve various problems in our lives. And we will always be very grateful to them for their guidance.
I would like to end just by saying that,
There will be times when we will fall, we will feel low & depressed, we will loose, but we will definitely strike back every time with a greater force, much more enthusiasm and will keep on trying to achieve what we have always wanted.